One-sided friendship test: is it mutual?
Not a “how well do you know me” quiz. This test looks at your WhatsApp chat (or Instagram, or Messenger) to see whether the friendship goes both ways: who checks in, who breaks the silences, who listens, and who shows up when it matters.
🫂 Friendship mode already picked. Free, no sign-up, and your chat never leaves your phone.
In 1 minute
How it works
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Export the chat with your friend
On WhatsApp: tap their name in the conversation and Export chat → Without media. An Instagram or Messenger conversation works too.
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Upload it and tell us who you are
It’s analyzed in your browser. It never leaves your phone and there’s no account.
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See who puts more into the friendship
A 0–100 score, who puts more into each thing, and whether you’re growing closer or drifting apart lately.
What we look at
What it measures in a friendship
A one-sided friendship doesn’t show in a single message, it shows in the patterns. Friendship mode looks at:
Who checks inWho starts the conversations. If it’s always you, you’ll see it as a percentage.
Who breaks the silenceWho texts again after days without talking.
Support“How are you?”, cheering on and congrats: who looks out for the other.
ListeningWho answers what the other asks instead of changing the subject.
Humor & sharingWho makes who laugh, and who sends the memes and links.
PlansWho suggests meeting up, and who says yes.
CuriosityWho asks about the other’s life.
Reply speedHow long each of you usually takes to reply.
Privacy
Your friend won’t find out
Everything is analyzed on your device: the chat isn’t uploaded to any server (ours included) and the other person gets no notification.
We don’t keep names or messages. Close the tab and the analysis is gone.
FAQ
How is this different from friendship quizzes?
Quizzes measure how well you know each other. This measures whether the friendship is mutual: who texts, who listens and who shows up, from your real messages.
How do I know if my friendship is one-sided?
If you almost always text first, your questions go unanswered and every plan comes from you, it’s unbalanced. The guide one-sided friendship: signs explains it in detail.
Does it work with group chats?
No, for now only conversations between two people. If you upload a group, it’ll tell you.
How many messages do I need?
Under 200 messages or two weeks of chat, confidence is low. With months of conversation the result is much more reliable.
Is it free?
Yes: free, with no sign-up.
Take the friendship test
Free · no sign-up · on your phone